Why do you like the club?

We asked our members what they liked most about their club. Here is what they had to say...

Jeanette

Companionship, conversation,yoga,dance, themed talks and lovely food.

Jean

All the members; everyone is lovely kind and thoughtful. The food is great and I love coming here!

Ken

It's a very nice group to come to, very sociable and I love to be here.A great size of group, everyone has a good relationship.

Mary

I like meeting different people. Very supportive carers. Good subjects for discussion.

Susan

It's not an institution. Lots of caring. You don't feel like just one of the crowd. More homely and individual.

John

All a lot of nice people. Some of the nicest people I have met.

Roger

For two reasons: I enjoy the the company of the group and my partner has time for herself.

Roger

I like the aura of the place and the good vibes. I like to get out and enjoy the company. Dance and yoga are good.

Dad's “Happy Place”

Whilst mum catches up with chores and rest, dad gets to have light exercise, sing, play games and quizzes and enjoy tea with fabulous cakes. Somehow, I think he gets the better end of the deal.  His face lights up at drop off with the familiar surroundings and knowing he is safe and cared for mum can relax and catch up on her day. Dad particularly enjoys the games and its lovely to hear he still has his competitive spirit and even now he still loves to win. A home cooked hot lunch is prepared and welcomed by all the group including the staff. Dad loves his time helping with the washing and wiping up and feeling useful. He has built a special bond with another member and it is amazing how they help each through. Benita, Nicky and the girls do a fantastic job caring for our loved ones as if they were their own.  Their understanding of needs, patience and dedication should be applauded. Our life would not be the same without every one of them and dad would certainly miss “his happy place” if he was unable to go.  Well done girls, we hope to be part of your club for a very long time.

Brenda

After Mum had her stroke, that left her physically well but left her problems with her short-term memory, she felt isolated and had lost her confidence as she was now unable to drive .

        When we stumbled across the Here 4 U group Mum was not sure about going ,but she went for a taster day and loved it .Mum was very excited to go again.

         The group has given back a bit of independence ,enabled her to do the things she loves ,not only emotionally but also intellectually, it has helped with her confidence, with all the activity's they offer ,cooking, quizzes ,jigsaws. They have really tried to tailor activities that Mum likes but also challenging her to try new activities. As a family not only has it given a day's respite for my stepfather it has given us peace of mind that Mum is well looked after within the loving and warm atmosphere the Her 4 U family offer.